Is revenge motivating you right now as you deal with your divorce? I think thoughts of revenge are normal for most of us but those thoughts shouldn’t be all-consuming. Once the divorce is final, you may regret vengeful acts if they prevent you and your ex from remaining friends. Don’t let revenge close that door.
What is happening to you is the same thing that has happened to the majority of divorcing couples. Yours is not a unique situation, even though the players and circumstances may be different.
You will survive. You will be better than you are now. You will find that your ex is not the only person who can make you happy. It will take time. It will hurt. There will come a time when you’ll understand why this is all happening, and why it had to happen.
Don’t argue, plead, or otherwise beg him or her to come back. That isn’t attractive to them or to anyone else. Once you get yourself back on track, with good thoughts about yourself and where your life is going, your ex may find you attractive once again.
The best revenge would be that you won’t need or want him or her back in your life!