His Other Girlfriends

Divorced men don’t have to limit themselves to one girlfriend at a time and some men don’t. Divorced women, too, are under no obligation to date just one man at a time.

When dating relationships turn serious and each person agrees to keep their relationship exclusively between the two of them, other girlfriends (and boyfriends) are out of place.

Some people are incapable of being faithful to their primary partner whether they’re married or dating. A person’s history is a good indicator of whether or not they are going to be faithful in a current relationship. While not every person falls into the “once a cheater, always a cheater” category, dating a person with a history of cheating may be hazardous to long term relationship health.

Unless your relationship is solid and has been on-going for more than a few months, you may be the odd one out if you demand exclusivity, commitment and fidelity from a man who isn’t ready to settle down to “just one” girlfriend. If he isn’t ready but you are, it is probably decision time for you.

Try to handle your differences with the “other women” without pulling your man into the middle of a conflict. There are some “other women” who won’t ever go away and you may not care for the outcome if you place your man into the position of having to make choices between the people for whom he has strong feelings.