She said her husband uses online chat rooms to meet women. He says it’s only harmless fun even though he is planning to meet a woman he met online. She says it’s far from being harmless.
I said:
Your husband is a cheat. Perhaps you don’t want a divorce but that may be your only option unless you can learn to live with a man who could care less about your feelings. He threatens you with even more infidelity if you don’t leave him alone while he plays his harmful online games and even admits he’ll probably have an affair.
Did you agree to an “open marriage” when you married him? Was he always this way and perhaps you expected marriage to change him? His “little harmless fun” is hurting you. He obviously doesn’t care. You should. If it were me, I’d get out before he brought home a “little harmless” disease.