He’s everything you’ve ever wanted in a man. She’s the perfect woman. Your whole day gets brighter when your cyber soulmate emails or IMs a sweet greeting. Cyber love isn’t impossible but what happens if your cyber soulmate is already married or is a chatroom “player”?
Not all people who frequent chatrooms and who use online matchmaking services are cheaters. There are plenty of good people using the Web to search for their next husband or wife and they will be as honest and as committed to someone they meet online as they would to someone they might have met “the old-fashioned way.”
The problem with meeting someone in the virtual world instead of in the real world is not being able to put the “face and body” with the written words. Someone who would be a “no way” date in real life might be a “chatroom soul mate.” “Chemistry” which may be lacking in real life can be created through carefully chosen words.
Everyone tries to project the best image of themselves when they want to impress someone. Some people are able to be on their best behavior for much longer than others, hiding their true personality and character flaws. The virtual world provides the perfect cover for any and all imperfections.