Pat, what phase would u say my mlcer is in as he becoming helpful friendly connecting with family and friends again after 4yrs? …………………..
Some men do return to their wives and families after midlife crisis. Maybe he’s putting out feelers to see if he’d be welcome? Or maybe he just doesn’t want people to dislike him for whatever he may have done “in the heat of crisis.”
If he’s in another relationship and acting like he’d be happier at your home, the other relationship has to end first. If he’s not with someone else then why not slowly see where this leads. If you want to, that is. As long as you’re not in another relationship. ~ Pat