In four years of marriage, she says her husband has betrayed her several times. In addition to going to clubs by himself, he has been spending a lot of time online and portrays himself as a single man in posts and emails to other women. She doesn’t trust him and doesn’t believe he can stop cheating.
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\nI said:<\/b><\/p>\n
Fidelity in a marriage is very important. It sounds as if your husband, despite having the responsibilities of a husband and father, behaves as if he is single and available. As long as you accept his behavior he will have no reason to change it.<\/p>\n
Decide what you need from a husband and what you will accept. If he can’t meet those needs and his behavior is not acceptable, it’s up to you to do what it takes to set a good example for your children.<\/p>\n
Counseling for yourself, if he won’t go with you, is a good start.<\/p>\n
What will she do?<\/i><\/p>\n
Many women feel that they have no choice but to stay in a bad marriage. Perhaps they’re stay-at-home moms without what they think are marketable skills. Perhaps they feel that any type of marriage provides more security than no marriage at all.<\/p>\n
Each of us must make the decision that works best for us. Divorce is never easy but neither is a lifetime of less than acceptable compromises.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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