{"id":803,"date":"2006-10-23T10:21:25","date_gmt":"2006-10-23T14:21:25","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.patg.com\/Divorce\/arrest-her-for-fraud.htm"},"modified":"2016-05-02T09:40:41","modified_gmt":"2016-05-02T13:40:41","slug":"arrest-her-for-fraud","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/patg.com\/articles\/arrest-her-for-fraud.htm","title":{"rendered":"Arrest Her For Fraud?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>His wife had an affair and then divorced him even though he didn&#8217;t want to break up their family During the divorce, she forged his signature to a $3,000 check made out to the two of them. He wonders if he should have her arrested but worries what it might do to their two young children.<br \/>\n<!--more--><br \/>\n<b>I said:<\/b><\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s perfectly natural to want revenge for what she has done. And at this time, you wouldn&#8217;t have regrets about pressing charges against her if you could. But let&#8217;s think about the future, your children, and whether your portion of that $3,000 is worth doing irrepairable damage to a relationship that used to be worth something (why else would the two of you married?).<\/p>\n<p>Other couples have divorced and had a change of heart and remarried. It can happen unless too many bridges are burned in anger. While remarriage probably won&#8217;t happen in your case, why not move on as quickly as you can into a better life for yourself and your kids? Forgiveness is a great gift to bestow on even those who hurt you the most.<\/p>\n<p>This is just my opinion. You&#8217;ll have to make the decision that you feel is best for you and your children.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>His wife had an affair and then divorced him even though he didn&#8217;t want to break up their family During the divorce, she forged his signature to a $3,000 check made out to the two of them. He wonders if he should have her arrested but worries what it might do to their two young &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/patg.com\/articles\/arrest-her-for-fraud.htm\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;Arrest Her For Fraud?&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[19],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/patg.com\/articles\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/803"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/patg.com\/articles\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/patg.com\/articles\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/patg.com\/articles\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/patg.com\/articles\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=803"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/patg.com\/articles\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/803\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3130,"href":"https:\/\/patg.com\/articles\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/803\/revisions\/3130"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/patg.com\/articles\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=803"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/patg.com\/articles\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=803"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/patg.com\/articles\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=803"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}