{"id":2879,"date":"2012-08-26T18:33:04","date_gmt":"2012-08-26T18:33:04","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/advice.friendsandlovers.com\/?p=2879"},"modified":"2012-08-26T18:33:04","modified_gmt":"2012-08-26T18:33:04","slug":"you-cant-lose-what-you-dont-have","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/patg.com\/articles\/you-cant-lose-what-you-dont-have.htm","title":{"rendered":"You Can&#8217;t Lose What You Don&#8217;t Have"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em>hello pat.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>i have a prolem that i cant solt at all and i really need your help. my relationship is 7 months and i love my man so much. i found it confusing when i walk with him on the malls and he keeps watching females, today he saw this ather lady carrying a bag and he said &#8220;i wish i was not in dating so that i can help her&#8221;, i was so hurt, i didnt even know how to comment.<\/em> <!--more--><\/p>\n<p><em>most of the times when i spend with him a longer period of time he end up moody, ignorant and angry. before i thought i was the one who was wrong but i can see that he is the one who is acting up. what can i do to enjoy life? i have been hurt almost every day. i try so hard to make life simple but the day never ended without me being hurt. please help, i dont want to lose him.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>thank you<\/em><\/p>\n<p>This is not the way love is supposed to be. Moody? Ignorant? Angry? Who wants a boyfriend like that? Someone who causes you daily hurt? Someone who watches other women when he is with you? Someone who wishes he wasn&#8217;t dating you so he could &#8220;help&#8221; another female?<\/p>\n<p>You can&#8217;t lose someone you don&#8217;t have. If he were my boyfriend I&#8217;d have kicked him to the curb a long time ago. You deserve better but with this loser hanging around no nice guy will try to get to know you.<\/p>\n<p>This is just my opinion. You&#8217;ll have to do what you think is best for you. ~ Pat<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>hello pat. i have a prolem that i cant solt at all and i really need your help. my relationship is 7 months and i love my man so much. i found it confusing when i walk with him on the malls and he keeps watching females, today he saw this ather lady carrying a &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/patg.com\/articles\/you-cant-lose-what-you-dont-have.htm\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;You Can&#8217;t Lose What You Don&#8217;t Have&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[13],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/patg.com\/articles\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2879"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/patg.com\/articles\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/patg.com\/articles\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/patg.com\/articles\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/patg.com\/articles\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2879"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/patg.com\/articles\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2879\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/patg.com\/articles\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2879"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/patg.com\/articles\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2879"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/patg.com\/articles\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2879"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}