{"id":2875,"date":"2012-06-27T18:43:05","date_gmt":"2012-06-27T22:43:05","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/advice.friendsandlovers.com\/?p=2875"},"modified":"2016-05-01T18:53:00","modified_gmt":"2016-05-01T22:53:00","slug":"from-straight-to-gay","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/patg.com\/articles\/from-straight-to-gay.htm","title":{"rendered":"From Straight To Gay?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em>I am 40 years old and married 12 years back and got 3 lovely kids. Unfortunately i discovered than i have sexual attraction to men, feeling of being bottom. I am living in a country where Homosexuality is stated as crime in the Law and society highly discourages it. <\/p>\n<p>I visited gay chat rooms and have found a foriegner who is also married and had met personally and exchange ideas. I never had any sexual practice with anyone. I am feeling deep sexual attraction to men. How can i go with it? Am in big big dilemaa and appreciate your advise. tnx a lot in advance<\/em><!--more--><\/p>\n<p>I won&#8217;t give you advice to help you cheat on your wife regardless if it&#8217;s with a man or a woman. Having sex with someone other than your wife is cheating which I would imagine is also highly discouraged in your country.<\/p>\n<p>How much are you willing to risk in order to have sex with a man? Your wife and kids? Your freedom if discovered by the law? Becoming a society outcast? Risking sexually transmitted diseases?<\/p>\n<p>Please consider the risks before proceeding down this dangerous path.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I am 40 years old and married 12 years back and got 3 lovely kids. Unfortunately i discovered than i have sexual attraction to men, feeling of being bottom. I am living in a country where Homosexuality is stated as crime in the Law and society highly discourages it. I visited gay chat rooms and &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/patg.com\/articles\/from-straight-to-gay.htm\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;From Straight To Gay?&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[11],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/patg.com\/articles\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2875"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/patg.com\/articles\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/patg.com\/articles\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/patg.com\/articles\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/patg.com\/articles\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2875"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/patg.com\/articles\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2875\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2937,"href":"https:\/\/patg.com\/articles\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2875\/revisions\/2937"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/patg.com\/articles\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2875"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/patg.com\/articles\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2875"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/patg.com\/articles\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2875"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}