You Can’t Lose What You Don’t Have

hello pat.

i have a prolem that i cant solt at all and i really need your help. my relationship is 7 months and i love my man so much. i found it confusing when i walk with him on the malls and he keeps watching females, today he saw this ather lady carrying a bag and he said “i wish i was not in dating so that i can help her”, i was so hurt, i didnt even know how to comment.

most of the times when i spend with him a longer period of time he end up moody, ignorant and angry. before i thought i was the one who was wrong but i can see that he is the one who is acting up. what can i do to enjoy life? i have been hurt almost every day. i try so hard to make life simple but the day never ended without me being hurt. please help, i dont want to lose him.

thank you

This is not the way love is supposed to be. Moody? Ignorant? Angry? Who wants a boyfriend like that? Someone who causes you daily hurt? Someone who watches other women when he is with you? Someone who wishes he wasn’t dating you so he could “help” another female?

You can’t lose someone you don’t have. If he were my boyfriend I’d have kicked him to the curb a long time ago. You deserve better but with this loser hanging around no nice guy will try to get to know you.

This is just my opinion. You’ll have to do what you think is best for you. ~ Pat